Women not equal with Men – Tiwa Savage

The issue of gender equality has once again arisen with Tiwa Savage promoting the dogma that men are natural leaders at home, no matter the success of the woman. On a radio show she said;  “I also don’t think men and women are equal, I don’t think that’s how God created us, especially in the… Continue reading Women not equal with Men – Tiwa Savage

Chris Attoh blames his wife for their failed marriage.

So, now we know that the marriage between Actor Chris Attoh and Damilola Adegbite is over. Chris, who appeared on a radio show, said the reason most marriages don’t work is that ‘we’ have forgotten what the fundamentals of marriage are. I take it that by “we” he meant the woman because everything he said,… Continue reading Chris Attoh blames his wife for their failed marriage.

Is it advisable to be a house wife in Nigeria?       

So, after I saw a video where a woman was complaining that her husband does not give her money to make her hair. I wondered why a grown ass woman would sit comfortably and wait for a man to give her money, to take care of herself? How can you be comfortable with the idea… Continue reading Is it advisable to be a house wife in Nigeria?       

Why is it bad to be Left Handed in Nigeria?

The Nigerian society frowns at using the left hand. Being left-handed is considered weird because the general perception is that, it is a bad habit. So, lately my son started eating with his left hand. His dad is always quick to “correct” him to use his right hand. But I jump in and say, please… Continue reading Why is it bad to be Left Handed in Nigeria?

Submission – a word I have grown to hate.

I hear and see Nigerian Men and Women preaching that the Woman should always submit to her Husband. But what does it mean to be submissive? I really do not understand why that word should exist in a mutual loving relationship. What do most Nigerian when they say that they want a submissive Woman? I… Continue reading Submission – a word I have grown to hate.

When is the right age to discuss LGBT with your kids?

Okay, so one day I asked my 6-year-old what she wanted to be when she grows up and she responded, “I want to be a princess.” And I thought, Hmm!!! she’s read so many fairy-tale books, now it’s time to read something different something to let her know that life is not all about fairy… Continue reading When is the right age to discuss LGBT with your kids?

No Pastor, this is not how to settle a couple’s dispute.

As a Nigerian woman, if you ever need marriage counselling, please visit a professional and one who is non-religious, otherwise this is what you will get (Video below). You will get blamed for the problem because like I have often said, Religion does not like women. I am not a therapist or anything but i… Continue reading No Pastor, this is not how to settle a couple’s dispute.