As a Nigerian woman, if you ever need marriage counselling, please visit a professional and one who is non-religious, otherwise this is what you will get (Video below). You will get blamed for the problem because like I have often said, Religion does not like women. I am not a therapist or anything but i… Continue reading No Pastor, this is not how to settle a couple’s dispute.
A few days ago, I read this from BraveHeart Initiative’s page: Few days ago, our revered Apostle Suleiman extended his generosity to inmates of Auchi Prison, Edo State, Nigeria. A total of seven inmates benefited from his assistance. He requested for a list of those whose verdict carried options of fines and the Prison Authority… Continue reading An Act of Goodwill Or Not?
“Why all the struggle to make things work? Marriage shouldn’t be years and years of gruelling awfulness. For what? To say you’ve been married for many miserable years? Life is short. If you’ve done all you can do, if you’ve tried your hardest and stuff just isn’t working because human beings naturally grow and change, then… Continue reading Is Marriage Really ‘For Better Or Worse?’
On TV Dakore Akande was talking about how she believes she can do anything especially after giving birth and one of the presenters (a woman) asks, Natural birth? What was the point of that question? Does it make her less of a woman if she had her baby by a Caesarean Section? What's your business… Continue reading Nigerian Women and Hebrew Woman Syndrome
When I get into conversations with my Naija peeps about the way I see God now, I am tagged an atheist. What I say is; “I believe that there is a God, a supreme being, one who made us but does not get involved with the affairs of the Universe”, all they hear is me… Continue reading I still believe there is a God.
A guy made a post about a man who has been in the UK asking for good hospitals he could have a DNA done to check if he was the father of his children. The post went viral and was misunderstood to mean that he (the poster) was calling on men to go and conduct… Continue reading The DNA Brouhaha In Naija
Domestic violence has been trending a while in Nigeria, with recent reports of it plaguing the homes of some of the notable Nigerian celebrities. So, it is not surprising that a lot of the celebrities are commenting on the issue. Actor, Yul Edochie gave echoed his thoughts on this subject, where he used his parents… Continue reading Women Have A Big Role To Play In Domestic Violence – Yul Edochie
I AM A WOMAN!!! So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologise to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they… Continue reading I AM A WOMAN!!! – Anonymous
After Lanre Gentry was released from Kirikiri Prison, for beating up his wife, Mercy Aigbe, he has said that the government should focus on more important issues in Nigerian rather than involving themselves in Domestic Violence. He said he had something to tell the world about his prison life and how it happened and we… Continue reading Government Shouldn’t Get Involved In Domestic Violence But Should Concentrate On Prison Reforms – Mr Gentry
So, when actress Empress Njamah was asked to talk about domestic violence she said; “A man hits a woman, it’s called domestic violence; a woman hits a man, what is that called?” Don't we all know what it's called? Our Aunty Empress said it is called Mental Violence because, some women are headstrong and they… Continue reading Women Should Help Men Control Their Anger – Empress Njamah